""FRIENDS " - Single and ready to mingle.

Imagine you being the only single friend, out of all of your circle of friends? Imagine how that feels? Oh my god. I've been there! To find my self in a very complicated situation! ( It was so laughable that I got a little bit depressed! )

Did any of you notice that? Like, why are you the only single person out of all your circle of friends? That doesn't make sense.

The best place to be if you are single, is at bars. Any type of bars.  Like ,  karaoke nights or go to a regular bar. Start a conversation, about anything that has to do with a bar.

And if you have a best friend, go with the best friend on your first time at a bar. He/ she will definitely keep you looking like your'e " NOT " single.

And if you have a girl that is a best friend, ' GREAT! " you have scored! Because, if you're a girl, and she's your best friends will keep you single! ( ha ha ha )


If you still think, that your best friend is your best friend, then, why are you still single?

Isn't it a little bit to suspicious? 

My real heart break in 2012.

My dating experience, has been up and down since 2012. I have moved on, not to find out my ex's , supposingly who told me, that, he was " gay . " Is now married! Not to a man, but, to a woman.

I by accident stumbled upon an article on face book. What happened was truly a real heart break. I guess, you can say, I had feelings for him, and he didn't. Only because, to find out, he slept with my gay best friend who was a guy. He harassed me at work to a point I lost my job at a hair salon. I lost my career in college. Almost. I am allowed to go back to school sooner then later. I have decided to become a lawyer. And, things are going so far pretty good for me.

Accept one thing. I stumbled upon a face book article that caught my eye. A couple in a wedding dress that the groom looked like my ex. Gay? I thought. Is he really is gay? As soon as I saw the photo, I was heart broken and cried. Just a little. All the lies, all the crimes, he has committed, and harassed me, because he thought he could, just nearly made me break down.

She is pretty, a blonde, and has a beautiful wedding dress. To find out that, the other women stole your  or I never had him, got married to someone who is a liar, and a cheater. It's like, two peace in a pod. Guess, she really wanted him so bad. She won the fight and she can have him.

I'm still kind of not over it. Trying to get over the heart break of finding out that, he's married now.

I think. If that's the case, it's another motivation for me, to carry on and stay motivated and positive!

Amen! 

"Why am I almost 30 and still single? "

To every one who's ever been in a relationship absolutely knows or has been cheated on if you are still single and is in your early thirties, late twenties and turning thirty and you are still single. Trust me, usually, around thirties, men kind of want to settle down. You would think that way right? Wrong! I've been in plenty of relationships, only to get heart broken and be dead wrong about the guy I have dated on my last relationship which lasted for eight months. After eight months of "Kind " of dating, I have found my self single, yet again.

As an author, a reporter and a writer, I thought, I had it all. After telling him, how I felt about him, I found my self depressed after he did not reply back to my message. We had tones of things in common. At least, that's what I thought. Besides the fact, that, I did not have a car. But, that's besides the point.

Lately, men have been acting not sensere with women's feelings but honestly some treat them like they're the next Kim Kardashian. One problem I have with this. We as women, who have respectable careers as successful business women, lawyers and celebrities need to stop men treating us like we're nothing but an object. I have gained self control and self respect towards my self after the last break up.

We are to quick to judge men by their look and their appearance also. It's way to easy to judge a man by their looks. The same way men do to women. Some times. That is why, women complain that's why, there isn't way to many good men out there.

I have noticed, not to look at a mans looks, or how the man is cute, and or good looking yet attractive. a man is. I have noticed that, a man should treat a woman with respect. If, on the other hand, a woman let's a man treat her like she's a whore and sleeps with every man, then, that's why she's having a hard time finding a man and to stay with her.

The other problem I have with women, is, some become best friends with you, then, to find out that they have been cheating behind your back the whole time with your husband, boyfriend  or best friend.

Trust, is the number one reason why I have a hard time trusting men and women. It goes both ways.

Thanks for understanding.
Top few reasons why am I still single.

There are a few reasons why I am still single. 

" Once Upon a Time There Was a Pen! " - A Short Story.

It was 1863. The night has fallen quietly, as it  was silent as  a public library in the middle of the day. Finally, he thought. Time to count the stars. The author reminded him self that, it would be a cloudy night. He would have been lucky to spot a star. As he came out of his wooden house, with his candle and a quilt with some drawing paper, he finally caught something magnificent. A shooting star. And so he made a wish. 

He also wondered, did these types of wishes come true. Was he so sure that one day his dream would come true. He had a brilliant idea that instead of a quilted feather, he would use an instrument to write with better than a quilt.It would have saved a lot of feathers, he thought. 

He also wished he could go back in time and erase what he had written. But some times, his idea's would have been kept private and a secret. Not all the time, this would have been imagined proven and true. He drew a wishing star, and then  his idea came out  of the blue. 

He started to draw a pen! Funny and ironicly , he laughed at his idea. And he thought that would never have happened. 

Economic Release of Employment News.

Hillary Clinton, who was the First Lady to President Bill Clinton in 1992, and who'm six years later was impeached in 1998 who'm later became 67th Secretary of State serving under President Barack Obama. And who also represented New York in the U.S Senate. ( 2001 to 2009. ) 

In the most recent news, Hillary Clinton, who is a 2016th Presidential nominee has recently stated that, " Don't Let Anybody Tell You That It's Corporations Businesses That Create Jobs. " .Where ijreview.com has posted the article on , the job creation she can bring to The White House. 

President Barack Obama, who is the 44th President of the United States has created over, where in the month of October 2014th, job ratings fell bellow 6% and as hiring picked up. After a very long recession, five years later, after the nation rose from a crippling recession, economy finally started to be on track and picking up .

Although, the signs of improvement were only temporary, the evidence were tempered by remanning wage gain struggle to raise the minimum wage. 

After, Septembers ( 2014th ) unemployment rate was 5.9 percent which went down from 6.1 percent in August, President Barack Obama blamed Republicans for obstructing his proposal to help ordinary Americans. " Too much of the growth in income and wealth is going to the very top - not enough of it is being spread to the ordinary worker, and that means that we've still got some more work to do to put in place policies that make sure that economy works not just for the few, but it works for everybody. " 

The Nation added 248,00 jobs in September across almost all sectors of the economy. 

Over the year, the number of unemployed persons decreased 1.3 percent points and 1.9 million respectively. 

In September of 2014th, of October , 2.2 million citizens have found a respectable job. 

( Good signs. ) 

Hundreds of High School Students in Middlesex County to Converge at RWJUH on Oct. 10 to Prepare Injury Prevention Lessons for Elementary School-Aged Peers

    RWJUH Safety Ambassador Program Now in Its Seventh Year

NEW BRUNSWICK, N.J. – Safety superheroes and, perhaps more impressively, teenagers who appear as themselves will spend several months this school year visiting younger district peers just beginning their academic journeys with the goal of teaching them valuable lessons to help keep them and their loved ones safe.

Through Robert Wood Johnson University Hospital’s Safety Ambassador Program (SAP), high school juniors and seniors are trained to present injury prevention lessons to first and second graders in their respective communities.  This school year, 23 high schools in central New Jersey – including, for the first time, Colonia High School - have signed up.

This Friday, October 10, more than 200 students, their school advisors and program volunteers will gather to learn about pedestrian safety, fall prevention, safety in and around cars and wheeled sports. Students will explore ways to creatively and successfully convey key messages to first and second graders. The SAP Safety Summit starts at 8:30 a.m. in the hospital courtyard.

“This is an opportunity for high school students to volunteer in a leadership capacity and to act as role models for younger children in their community,” explains Carol Lavitt, coordinator, Safety Ambassador Program at RWJUH.

The SAP program is funded with a grant from the State Farm Youth Advisory Board. In 2013, the YAB received a total of 804 applications, and RWJUH’s Injury Prevention Program was among only 64 to receive funding.

Lavitt added that this year, parents of the first and second graders are being asked to enroll in a three-year research study to help RWJUH determine the impact of the SAP on decreasing common childhood injuries.

Sixth Annual Steeplechase Distance Run Raises More Than $140,000 for the Steeplechase Cancer Center at Robert Wood Johnson University Hospital Somerset

Event Draws Record-Breaking 1,560 Participants

(Somerville, N.J.) – Avid runners, walkers, cancer survivors, physicians, community members, family and friends gathered for the sixth annual Steeplechase Distance Run/Walk on Sunday, September 28, 2014, raising more than $140,000 for the Steeplechase Cancer Center at Robert Wood Johnson University Hospital Somerset. Nearly 1,600 people, ranging in ages 9 to 85, participated in this year’s event in honor or in memory of loved ones, or to celebrate their own recoveries. The event, organized by Somerset Health Care Foundation, featured a 10K run, 5K run, 2-mile walk, kid sprints, music, refreshments, face painting and more, over a scenic course in Hillsborough, New Jersey.
“The Steeplechase Cancer Center at our Somerville campus consistently delivers quality care and provides access to clinical trials, expert physicians, and state-of-the-art medical equipment and laboratories to enhance the quality of life for cancer patients receiving our care,” said Paul Huegel, president of Somerset Health Care Foundation. “With the funds raised through the Steeplechase Distance Run/Walk, we will be able to continue providing patients and community members with the needed programs, support services and free educational events to help them live happier and healthier. We’d like to extend a heartfelt thank you to everyone who joined us to celebrate life, promote health and fitness and honor those who have been affected by cancer.”
The Steeplechase Distance Run/Walk began and ended at Amsterdam Elementary School in Hillsborough.  All runs were USA Track and Field (USATF) certified. A tent with art supplies allowed participants to make “shirt signs” with tribute/memorial/survivorship messages. RWJ Somerset’s Sports Performance staff was available providing runners with free trainer-assisted stretching, and a private massage company was also onsite. New this year, the Steeplechase Cancer Center had a special tent dedicated for cancer survivors. Guests gathered at tables in the festive tent to enjoy food, refreshments, and the company of fellow survivors, friends and family. Also new this year was the Patient Ambassador Program which included four cancer patients who donated their time and energy to promote the event and raise awareness for cancer. The ambassadors kicked off the start of the walk.
An awards ceremony was held after the completion of the races, awarding top runners in each event and age group. Kenneth Goglas of Port Reading, N.J., proved his endurance yet again by taking the overall first place awards for both the 10K and 5K for the second consecutive year. He completed the 10K ahead of 355 runners in just over 34 minutes, and then came in first out of 575 runners in the 5K race with a time just under 17 minutes. Goglas was awarded two medals for his accomplishments, and medals were also awarded to the top finishers in each age category. Additionally, every participant was provided a t-shirt and goodie bag, as a token of the hospital’s appreciation for their support.
The more than $140,000 raised from the event will support RWJ Somerset’s many cancer-focused community health lectures, survivorship and rehabilitation programs, cooking demonstrations, nutrition classes, and complementary medicine, including yoga, reiki, and meditation classes.  Total attendance for these programs is estimated to exceed 5,500 this year.
Event sponsors included Physicians for the Cure, Clayton and Associates, Emergency Medical Associates, Millenium, the Takeda Oncology Company, Financial Resources Federal Credit Union, Anesthesia Consultants of New Jersey, Jerry’s Executive Limo, Nimer and Bilal Mian, MD, Hillsborough Massage Therapy, Genentech and Lilly.
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About Robert Wood Johnson University Hospital and Robert Wood Johnson Health System
Robert Wood Johnson University Hospital (RWJUH) is the flagship hospital of Robert Wood Johnson Health System – New Jersey’s premier health system which boasts three acute care hospitals: RWJUH in New Brunswick and Somerville; RWJUH- Hamilton and RWJUH- Rahway and a national leader in pediatric rehabilitation: Children’s Specialized Hospital, as well as five fitness and wellness centers and numerous outpatient facilities. Through RWJ Health System, patients have access to exceptional women’s and children’s services and expert cancer, cardiac, emergency, neurology, stroke, trauma and pediatric rehabilitation care in addition to comprehensive health and wellness programs.
RWJUH is a 965-bed academic medical center with campuses in New Brunswick and Somerville, NJ.  Its Centers of Excellence include cardiovascular care from minimally invasive heart surgery to transplantation, cancer care, stroke care, neuroscience, joint replacement, and women’s and children’s care including The Bristol-Myers Squibb Children’s Hospital at Robert Wood Johnson University Hospital (www.bmsch.org).  As the flagship Cancer Hospital of Rutgers Cancer Institute of New Jersey and the principal teaching hospital of Rutgers Robert Wood Johnson Medical School in New Brunswick, RWJUH is an innovative leader in advancing state-of-the-art care. A Level 1 Trauma Center and the only Pediatric Trauma Center in the state, RWJUH’s New Brunswick campus serves as a national resource in its ground-breaking approaches to emergency preparedness.
RWJUH has been ranked among the best hospitals in America by U.S. News & World Report seven times and has been selected by the publication as a high performing hospital in numerous specialties.  The Bristol-Myers Squibb Children’s Hospital has been ranked among the best hospitals in America by U.S. News & World Report for three consecutive years.
Both the New Brunswick and Somerset campuses have earned significant national recognition for clinical quality and patient safety, including the prestigious Magnet® Award for Nursing Excellence, an “A” patient safety rating from the Leapfrog Group and “Most Wired” designation by Hospitals and Health Networks Magazine. The Joint Commission and the New Jersey Department of Health and Senior Services have designated the New Brunswick Campus as a Comprehensive Stroke Center and the Somerset Campus as a Primary Stroke Center.
The American College of Surgeons’ Commission on Cancer has rated RWJUH New Brunswick among the nation’s best comprehensive cancer centers and designated the Steeplechase Cancer Center at RWJ Somerset as a Comprehensive Community Cancer Center.  The Joint Surgery Center at Robert Wood Johnson University Hospital Somerset has earned the Joint Commission’s Gold Seal of Approval for total knee and total hip replacement surgery.
For more Information visit us online at www.rwjuh.edu.