""FRIENDS " - Single and ready to mingle.

Imagine you being the only single friend, out of all of your circle of friends? Imagine how that feels? Oh my god. I've been there! To find my self in a very complicated situation! ( It was so laughable that I got a little bit depressed! )

Did any of you notice that? Like, why are you the only single person out of all your circle of friends? That doesn't make sense.

The best place to be if you are single, is at bars. Any type of bars.  Like ,  karaoke nights or go to a regular bar. Start a conversation, about anything that has to do with a bar.

And if you have a best friend, go with the best friend on your first time at a bar. He/ she will definitely keep you looking like your'e " NOT " single.

And if you have a girl that is a best friend, ' GREAT! " you have scored! Because, if you're a girl, and she's your best friends will keep you single! ( ha ha ha )


If you still think, that your best friend is your best friend, then, why are you still single?

Isn't it a little bit to suspicious? 

My real heart break in 2012.

My dating experience, has been up and down since 2012. I have moved on, not to find out my ex's , supposingly who told me, that, he was " gay . " Is now married! Not to a man, but, to a woman.

I by accident stumbled upon an article on face book. What happened was truly a real heart break. I guess, you can say, I had feelings for him, and he didn't. Only because, to find out, he slept with my gay best friend who was a guy. He harassed me at work to a point I lost my job at a hair salon. I lost my career in college. Almost. I am allowed to go back to school sooner then later. I have decided to become a lawyer. And, things are going so far pretty good for me.

Accept one thing. I stumbled upon a face book article that caught my eye. A couple in a wedding dress that the groom looked like my ex. Gay? I thought. Is he really is gay? As soon as I saw the photo, I was heart broken and cried. Just a little. All the lies, all the crimes, he has committed, and harassed me, because he thought he could, just nearly made me break down.

She is pretty, a blonde, and has a beautiful wedding dress. To find out that, the other women stole your  or I never had him, got married to someone who is a liar, and a cheater. It's like, two peace in a pod. Guess, she really wanted him so bad. She won the fight and she can have him.

I'm still kind of not over it. Trying to get over the heart break of finding out that, he's married now.

I think. If that's the case, it's another motivation for me, to carry on and stay motivated and positive!

Amen! 

"Why am I almost 30 and still single? "

To every one who's ever been in a relationship absolutely knows or has been cheated on if you are still single and is in your early thirties, late twenties and turning thirty and you are still single. Trust me, usually, around thirties, men kind of want to settle down. You would think that way right? Wrong! I've been in plenty of relationships, only to get heart broken and be dead wrong about the guy I have dated on my last relationship which lasted for eight months. After eight months of "Kind " of dating, I have found my self single, yet again.

As an author, a reporter and a writer, I thought, I had it all. After telling him, how I felt about him, I found my self depressed after he did not reply back to my message. We had tones of things in common. At least, that's what I thought. Besides the fact, that, I did not have a car. But, that's besides the point.

Lately, men have been acting not sensere with women's feelings but honestly some treat them like they're the next Kim Kardashian. One problem I have with this. We as women, who have respectable careers as successful business women, lawyers and celebrities need to stop men treating us like we're nothing but an object. I have gained self control and self respect towards my self after the last break up.

We are to quick to judge men by their look and their appearance also. It's way to easy to judge a man by their looks. The same way men do to women. Some times. That is why, women complain that's why, there isn't way to many good men out there.

I have noticed, not to look at a mans looks, or how the man is cute, and or good looking yet attractive. a man is. I have noticed that, a man should treat a woman with respect. If, on the other hand, a woman let's a man treat her like she's a whore and sleeps with every man, then, that's why she's having a hard time finding a man and to stay with her.

The other problem I have with women, is, some become best friends with you, then, to find out that they have been cheating behind your back the whole time with your husband, boyfriend  or best friend.

Trust, is the number one reason why I have a hard time trusting men and women. It goes both ways.

Thanks for understanding.
Top few reasons why am I still single.

There are a few reasons why I am still single. 

" Once Upon a Time There Was a Pen! " - A Short Story.

It was 1863. The night has fallen quietly, as it  was silent as  a public library in the middle of the day. Finally, he thought. Time to count the stars. The author reminded him self that, it would be a cloudy night. He would have been lucky to spot a star. As he came out of his wooden house, with his candle and a quilt with some drawing paper, he finally caught something magnificent. A shooting star. And so he made a wish. 

He also wondered, did these types of wishes come true. Was he so sure that one day his dream would come true. He had a brilliant idea that instead of a quilted feather, he would use an instrument to write with better than a quilt.It would have saved a lot of feathers, he thought. 

He also wished he could go back in time and erase what he had written. But some times, his idea's would have been kept private and a secret. Not all the time, this would have been imagined proven and true. He drew a wishing star, and then  his idea came out  of the blue. 

He started to draw a pen! Funny and ironicly , he laughed at his idea. And he thought that would never have happened.