"Why am I almost 30 and still single? "

To every one who's ever been in a relationship absolutely knows or has been cheated on if you are still single and is in your early thirties, late twenties and turning thirty and you are still single. Trust me, usually, around thirties, men kind of want to settle down. You would think that way right? Wrong! I've been in plenty of relationships, only to get heart broken and be dead wrong about the guy I have dated on my last relationship which lasted for eight months. After eight months of "Kind " of dating, I have found my self single, yet again.

As an author, a reporter and a writer, I thought, I had it all. After telling him, how I felt about him, I found my self depressed after he did not reply back to my message. We had tones of things in common. At least, that's what I thought. Besides the fact, that, I did not have a car. But, that's besides the point.

Lately, men have been acting not sensere with women's feelings but honestly some treat them like they're the next Kim Kardashian. One problem I have with this. We as women, who have respectable careers as successful business women, lawyers and celebrities need to stop men treating us like we're nothing but an object. I have gained self control and self respect towards my self after the last break up.

We are to quick to judge men by their look and their appearance also. It's way to easy to judge a man by their looks. The same way men do to women. Some times. That is why, women complain that's why, there isn't way to many good men out there.

I have noticed, not to look at a mans looks, or how the man is cute, and or good looking yet attractive. a man is. I have noticed that, a man should treat a woman with respect. If, on the other hand, a woman let's a man treat her like she's a whore and sleeps with every man, then, that's why she's having a hard time finding a man and to stay with her.

The other problem I have with women, is, some become best friends with you, then, to find out that they have been cheating behind your back the whole time with your husband, boyfriend  or best friend.

Trust, is the number one reason why I have a hard time trusting men and women. It goes both ways.

Thanks for understanding.
Top few reasons why am I still single.

There are a few reasons why I am still single.